So the Harbour guy gets binned for a penalty try but Tasman don't get a player carded when they concede a penalty try.
Even though Tasman is my team - in principle I don't really mind that.
If you're getting done over at the scrum, you don't really have a choice about standing up/collapsing/folding in. You're not necessarily cheating intentionally - you're just getting dominated.
That's not necessarily true - it's certainly possible you are cheating intentionally to avoid a pushover try.
The optics aren't great when right before that scrum the ref had warned the Tasman captain about how further penalties would result in a Tasman player going to the bin.