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@MiketheSnow said in Happiness Scale:
@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
So... rather than a new thread, or re-starting the "Life Changes"... I'm using this.
Been recently offered the chance of work moving me to, my option of, ....- Guadalajara (famous for Mariachi music, tequila; and has active Cartel activity. All plus-sides in my book. But... shit salary)
- North Carolina (apparently good biking in the West? But sounds boring as fuck otherwise. And... seppos.)
- Vancouver (maybe... this is probably going to be shutdown by the Org, but... "we can ask")
- Montreal (French-speaking... is it really an issue?)
- Toronto (sounds like a standard/boring big city?)
Any insights into any of those places? Opinions?
I'm thinking of accepting a role in whichever of Toronto/Montreal comes with the bigger pay (probably Toronto)... registered as a "Remote worker" - then fucking off to Vancouver anyway.
Or... just giving Montreal a go... give learning French a half-arsed attempt, and just be that fluffybunny who doesn't bother to learn the lingo.Where in North Carolina?
Currently - the proposition is that I'd probably have to initially move into somewhere near Raleigh... but after having been moved in, I could probably move elsewhere without too much dissent.
And I'm thinking - moving to the mountains... so that I could do the Tail of the Dragon every weekend.Edit: of course, I'm judging shit from random reviews online. The famous "Tail of the Dragon" is probably no better than Napier-Taihape, or Round-the-Coromandel, or SH43.
And... USA just looks, in general, boring as fuck. I'd be interested in spending a bit of time checking out some of it, other than what I've already seen, but the idea of living there... doesn't thrill me. Happy to hear dissenting opinions, hence the question. -
@canefan said in Happiness Scale:
From the limited amount I know of Montreal, it sounds cool. Food will be great, French influence. But looks pretty damn cold in the Winter
Yeah - my initial thought is - food will be great, because the good French influence, but without the shit French influence.
My experience of France - good food... fucking good. Bad food (anything that's open on a Sunday) - fucking terrible.
Then realised... the "bad" end of Montreal food, is likely to be American-trash. Which... it's fucking horrifying to say - would be better than French-trash. But still trash.
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@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
@MiketheSnow said in Happiness Scale:
@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
So... rather than a new thread, or re-starting the "Life Changes"... I'm using this.
Been recently offered the chance of work moving me to, my option of, ....- Guadalajara (famous for Mariachi music, tequila; and has active Cartel activity. All plus-sides in my book. But... shit salary)
- North Carolina (apparently good biking in the West? But sounds boring as fuck otherwise. And... seppos.)
- Vancouver (maybe... this is probably going to be shutdown by the Org, but... "we can ask")
- Montreal (French-speaking... is it really an issue?)
- Toronto (sounds like a standard/boring big city?)
Any insights into any of those places? Opinions?
I'm thinking of accepting a role in whichever of Toronto/Montreal comes with the bigger pay (probably Toronto)... registered as a "Remote worker" - then fucking off to Vancouver anyway.
Or... just giving Montreal a go... give learning French a half-arsed attempt, and just be that fluffybunny who doesn't bother to learn the lingo.Where in North Carolina?
Currently - the proposition is that I'd probably have to initially move into somewhere near Raleigh... but after having been moved in, I could probably move elsewhere without too much dissent.
And I'm thinking - moving to the mountains... so that I could do the Tail of the Dragon every weekend.Edit: of course, I'm judging shit from random reviews online. The famous "Tail of the Dragon" is probably no better than Napier-Taihape, or Round-the-Coromandel, or SH43.
And... USA just looks, in general, boring as fuck. I'd be interested in spending a bit of time checking out some of it, other than what I've already seen, but the idea of living there... doesn't thrill me. Happy to hear dissenting opinions, hence the question.Got a mate who lives in that area
Brought his kids up there
Loves it
Great beaches nearby
Good food culture
Good links for travel around the US
I loved living in the States, albeit short term stuff
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@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
So... rather than a new thread, or re-starting the "Life Changes"... I'm using this.
Been recently offered the chance of work moving me to, my option of, ....- Guadalajara (famous for Mariachi music, tequila; and has active Cartel activity. All plus-sides in my book. But... shit salary)
- North Carolina (apparently good biking in the West? But sounds boring as fuck otherwise. And... seppos.)
- Vancouver (maybe... this is probably going to be shutdown by the Org, but... "we can ask")
- Montreal (French-speaking... is it really an issue?)
- Toronto (sounds like a standard/boring big city?)
Any insights into any of those places? Opinions?
I'm thinking of accepting a role in whichever of Toronto/Montreal comes with the bigger pay (probably Toronto)... registered as a "Remote worker" - then fucking off to Vancouver anyway.
Or... just giving Montreal a go... give learning French a half-arsed attempt, and just be that fluffybunny who doesn't bother to learn the lingo.Depends on your circumstances. Guadalajara will be the best by a mile. Something completely different, bit of added risk means bit of added fun & I'm sure it won't take you long to meet fellow bikers and create a network of pals.
North Carolina will be exactly as you expect and you won't get surprised. Will be pretty good if you can avoid all the American douche bags that populate that part of the states.
Canada .... meh. Lovely country once your out of the prairies with a cracking lifestyle, but Toronto / Montreal will get really fuckin cold and they have a complete dickhead as a PM. I think the best way to describe Canada is this. I know loads of people who have moved there. I know zero people who have stayed there.
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Just spent a week in Dubai. Had always avoided it despite seeing most people I know holiday there as I always thought it would be ver similar to Hong Kong & rather soul less.
I was 100% correct on both, but I did have an absolutely awesome time. Bit punchy on the wallet, but what isn't these days. Place has a great vibe (fully manufactured one though) and its' insane the construction that has gone on.
Biggest downside was all the Russians who seemingly were never taught basic manners. Chatting to my friend who lives there says that's been a big issue and Dubai now sits on a precipice (in his view) as the West can't be far off sanctioning them if the continue to let Russian money in willy nilly.
But on the whole great place to visit. Did some desert driving, went up the Burj Khalifa, did the Aquaventure water park at the Atlantis and basically just did the Dubai thing.
Good times.
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@MajorRage I stayed. But I’m not sure a Rando you occasionally trade insults with on the internet fits your definition of knowing.
Moved to Toronto, having moved here in 05 after stints in Calgary, HK, London and Vancouver Island, after leaving SA. I stayed even after we elected the Hairdo posing as a PM.
All in all it’s a pretty good spot. Especially if you’re raising kids.
If you could earn the same coin in Vancouver it would probably be better especially if you enjoy getting pissed on for 9 months of the year and hanging around supercilious folk in expensive hiking gear. Hell, you’ll probably feel right at home. Except the rugby’s shitter, the women (and men) are hotter and you’ll have to work a bit harder to get called a fluffybunny. And everything will
Language won’t be an issue in Montreal but the winters are far worse than TO. Though at least there are something approaching real skihills in striking distance. Bikings also much better, though TO has surprisingly good MtBing because it’s riddled with ravines.
Both Montreal and TO have great food/music scenes. Every major tour hits them in succession and most new acts hit them in succession at the start/end of their first NA tour.
Can’t comment on Guadalajara or really on Raleigh (though it might be your sleeper - especially if you’re factoring in tax rates.)
@Kruse Feel free to DM me if you want biased, wrong info on TOronto and definitely hit me up if you do end up in this godforsaken arctic shithole.
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@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
So... rather than a new thread, or re-starting the "Life Changes"... I'm using this.
Been recently offered the chance of work moving me to, my option of, ....- Guadalajara (famous for Mariachi music, tequila; and has active Cartel activity. All plus-sides in my book. But... shit salary)
- North Carolina (apparently good biking in the West? But sounds boring as fuck otherwise. And... seppos.)
- Vancouver (maybe... this is probably going to be shutdown by the Org, but... "we can ask")
- Montreal (French-speaking... is it really an issue?)
- Toronto (sounds like a standard/boring big city?)
Any insights into any of those places? Opinions?
I'm thinking of accepting a role in whichever of Toronto/Montreal comes with the bigger pay (probably Toronto)... registered as a "Remote worker" - then fucking off to Vancouver anyway.
Or... just giving Montreal a go... give learning French a half-arsed attempt, and just be that fluffybunny who doesn't bother to learn the lingo.I was invited to Mexico by someone in Guadalajara in the same week as those Aussies got killed (still went to Mexico city, wife doesn't watch news),but if I was you I'd check out the crime stats and how the local police treat people on bikes. I loved Mexico but yeah it has some issues. If you want to reawake your Hunter S Thompson or Carlos Castenada it would def create a few stories.
Vancouver-I know people who love it there, had some relatives move there too, the aquarium, is nice, the cycling is good, but it didn't feel very exotic to me. Near the train station (or was it bus station?) near Chinatown there is an area full of ICEd zombies wandering around-rather creepy.
Montreal-I loved it. They had 17 icebreakers in the harbour but the beer is good, the food is fine and the US tourists really stand out. Locals speak English with deliberately thick French accents. If you like violent hockey this is the place.
North Carolina-heard very different reports. but I understand Raleigh is one of the nicer places
https://www.niche.com/places-to-live/raleigh-wake-nc/
I'm interested in what sort of work you do-those places don't seem to have much in common?
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Cheers all - some good info to take into account.
@nostrildamus - I currently work for a fucking massive evil seppo IT corporation, in a department linked to "the Cloud". So yeah - there's probably either Data-Centres in most of those locations, or corporate offices.
I was thinking about fucking off, because... massive evil seppo corporation, and other shit. But this offer of paying for me to work elsewhere, might make me stick around a year or two.
Clue: This massive evil seppo corporation - won the Americas Cup off of Team-NZ, in one of the dodgiest come-back series victories in history. -
@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
Cheers all - some good info to take into account.
@nostrildamus - I currently work for a fucking massive evil seppo IT corporation, in a department linked to "the Cloud". So yeah - there's probably either Data-Centres in most of those locations, or corporate offices.
I was thinking about fucking off, because... massive evil seppo corporation, and other shit. But this offer of paying for me to work elsewhere, might make me stick around a year or two.
Clue: This massive evil seppo corporation - won the Americas Cup off of Team-NZ, in one of the dodgiest come-back series victories in history.Nope, need another clue please 😬
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@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
Cheers all - some good info to take into account.
@nostrildamus - I currently work for a fucking massive evil seppo IT corporation, in a department linked to "the Cloud". So yeah - there's probably either Data-Centres in most of those locations, or corporate offices.
I was thinking about fucking off, because... massive evil seppo corporation, and other shit. But this offer of paying for me to work elsewhere, might make me stick around a year or two.
Clue: This massive evil seppo corporation - won the Americas Cup off of Team-NZ, in one of the dodgiest come-back series victories in history.Ooh, well (and if I guessed said evil corp correctly), Delphi in Greece is rather nice.
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@voodoo said in Happiness Scale:
Nope, need another clue please 😬
Made the best cookies in the Matrix movies?
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@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
So... rather than a new thread, or re-starting the "Life Changes"... I'm using this.
Been recently offered the chance of work moving me to, my option of, ....Guadalajara (famous for Mariachi music, tequila; and has active Cartel activity. All plus-sides in my book. But... shit salary)
North Carolina (apparently good biking in the West? But sounds boring as fuck otherwise. And... seppos.)
Vancouver (maybe... this is probably going to be shutdown by the Org, but... "we can ask")
Montreal (French-speaking... is it really an issue?)
Toronto (sounds like a standard/boring big city?)Any insights into any of those places? Opinions?
If the role can be done from any of those locations, I'd argue for a specific rate and then live in Mexico. I went to uni with too many Canadians to want to subject myself to that again.
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@antipodean good thing you can only get herpes once, eh?
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@antipodean said in Happiness Scale:
@Kruse said in Happiness Scale:
So... rather than a new thread, or re-starting the "Life Changes"... I'm using this.
Been recently offered the chance of work moving me to, my option of, ....Guadalajara (famous for Mariachi music, tequila; and has active Cartel activity. All plus-sides in my book. But... shit salary)
North Carolina (apparently good biking in the West? But sounds boring as fuck otherwise. And... seppos.)
Vancouver (maybe... this is probably going to be shutdown by the Org, but... "we can ask")
Montreal (French-speaking... is it really an issue?)
Toronto (sounds like a standard/boring big city?)Any insights into any of those places? Opinions?
If the role can be done from any of those locations, I'd argue for a specific rate and then live in Mexico. I went to uni with too many Canadians to want to subject myself to that again.
That was my original plan, but don't think it's going to work like that, unfortunately. Guadalajara was definitely near the top of my thinking, until I got told they'd pay me pesos.
So maybe I take Toronto pay, then fuck off to Letterkenny ASAP.
Ideal:- Pay me Toronto salary
- I'll live nearby for Summer
- Guadalajara for Winter
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This morning I asked The Boy (now 19) if he'd be willing to trade in half his $50/month allowance for faster internet. He said "fuck yes" because PS5. Took it to Mrs TA and she demurred, saying we should just claim it on tax anyway and why cut him out over it? OK.
- Worth noting he works at the local Dan Murphys and earns about $500 a week. Lives here rent free but buys his own booze.
Later today, I was sitting on the couch with my phone out in the family area of the kitchen.
The Boy (now 19) comes out and I hear him grab a drink, but he's behind me so I don't see what.
Mrs TA comes out from her office at that point, and archly inquires what he's doing with Midori at 4PM on a Monday afternoon.
He calmly informs her he wants a drink, and she isn't going to change his mind.
A fairly cold discussion ensues, and he goes back to his room.- Context: per my previous posts, Mrs TA's Dad was an alco and died recently from a whole host of things related to him being an alco.
I then get the "Why didn't you back me up?" treatment.
I explained the discussions I had with The Boy several times about the drinking and why it was not healthy (I used her old man as a reference point). Of course he thanked me for the advice at the time and said he didn't have an issue.
Besides coming home fucked up a couple of times (haven't we all?) I have no reason to believe he's got an issue.
Now it's cold as shit in here, but I take solace in the fact she's probably cycling in the next few days so isn't rational.
I'll have a word to him about timing...
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Also today, Miss TA (15.75) is exploring her indepdence by going up to the local shops or Maccas after school, and getting stern reminders to be home by 5PM etc.
She got the bus home today in particular - a grand total of 2km away - and things got a bit snippy.
Miss TA wants to go away for University (which I applaud, having done that myself) and Mrs TA is freaking out about it (because she grew up in Sydney with everything nearby).
I think the prospect of an empty nest is starting to hit home with her, along with the loss of control that entails.
I guess I'm chopped liver in this scenario...
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@NTA said in Happiness Scale:
Also today, Miss TA (15.75) is exploring her indepdence by going up to the local shops or Maccas after school, and getting stern reminders to be home by 5PM etc.
She got the bus home today in particular - a grand total of 2km away - and things got a bit snippy.
Miss TA wants to go away for University (which I applaud, having done that myself) and Mrs TA is freaking out about it (because she grew up in Sydney with everything nearby).
I think the prospect of an empty nest is starting to hit home with her, along with the loss of control that entails.
I guess I'm chopped liver in this scenario...
You might as well be the male spider after the mating
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