Defending your home
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<p>Not overly clear but did they detain him off the property? Kind of sounds like it, but on the street is pretty close in any case. That could be significant imo.</p>
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<p>I'm in favour of maximum force if some fuck comes into my house - why would you take the risk of a drawn out confrontation? put the punk down... and hope there isn't more than one.</p>
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<p>But if you've chased someone off, how far do you go? And if it turns out you're much bigger/stronger/more dangerous what responsibility sits with you to rein it in? </p> -
<p>I guess the other thing to consider is that if this guy was on something, no amount of reasoning will solve it, sadly, violence is likely the only response, and in that situation, going overboard in my home would be very, very easy to do! </p>
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<p>But if you've chased someone off, how far do you go? And if it turns out you're much bigger/stronger/more dangerous what responsibility sits with you to rein it in? </p>
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<p>what happened to that dude that chased and stabbed the tagger (which is obviously different defending yourself)</p> -
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<p>Not overly clear but did they detain him off the property? Kind of sounds like it, but on the street is pretty close in any case. That could be significant imo.</p>
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<p>I'm in favour of maximum force if some fuck comes into my house - why would you take the risk of a drawn out confrontation? put the punk down... and hope there isn't more than one.</p>
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<p>But if you've chased someone off, how far do you go? And if it turns out you're much bigger/stronger/more dangerous what responsibility sits with you to rein it in? </p>
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<p>This. Kicking the shit out of some scumbag in your own home is one thing. But if you have stopped the threat and elect to continue with the reprisals then you're on thin ice legally.</p>
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<p>However one less Wankpuffin (C: M.Okey 2016)) is to be considered a good thing.</p> -
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<p>But if you've chased someone off, how far do you go? And if it turns out you're much bigger/stronger/more dangerous what responsibility sits with you to rein it in? </p>
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<p>FWIW I've been advised that if they're leaving, let them go.</p>
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<p>As to the other question; that's the difficult one to answer - what is in fact reasonable? If you're a 150lb weakling confronted with a 6'4" 250lb invader, grabbing a weapon seems entirely reasonable to me. But what if the small bloke is a jedi master, etc? Often the differences aren't so obvious. Then there's the delicate matter of whether they're on drugs so don't register pain like a normal human being, or your own adrenaline which may diminish your ability to determine that the threat is no longer present</p>
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<p>yeah if they are leaving, let them go...although if they have just raped (or attempted) your daughter/wife, you are probably be a tad blinded by rage.</p>
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<p>I dont know how true it was, but when I was in the UK and I worked in an Offy for some extra ££'s to save, and one of the older guys said that if you kept a baseball bat under the counter, and someone tried something on and you hit them with it, you could get done, whereas if you grabbed bottle of wine and whacked them over the head with it, its fine because you have improvised rather than pre-meditated...sounded legit, but I still had a bat behind the door, expect it would be more of a deterrent brandishing it than a bottle of wine too!</p> -
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<p>what happened to that dude that chased and stabbed the tagger (which is obviously different defending yourself)</p>
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<p>Don't recall what happened to that guy. But that's murky territory aye. </p> -
Jail: <a data-ipb='nomediaparse' href='http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/1399650/Emery-jailed-for-killing-tagger'>http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/1399650/Emery-jailed-for-killing-tagger</a>
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<p>thought he had, but wow, 2009, doesnt seem that long ago!! </p>
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<p>So a tagger is basically a graffiti vandal? I'd assumed it meant a guy that was wearing an ankle tag. Chasing a poxy vandal with a knife is waaaay over the top.</p>
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<blockquote class="ipsBlockquote" data-author="taniwharugby" data-cid="568677" data-time="1459407727"><p>thought he had, but wow, 2009, doesnt seem that long ago!! <br>
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<p>This is what happens when we track things in 4 year cycles!!</p>
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<p>This. Kicking the shit out of some scumbag in your own home is one thing. But if you have stopped the threat and elect to continue with the reprisals then <strong>you're on thin ice legally.</strong></p>
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<p>However one less Wankpuffin (C: M.Okey 2016)) is to be considered a good thing.</p>
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<p>Yeah but theres the possibility that you're so blinded by rage at the invasion of your home, the terror said shithead inflicted on your family etc.....plus if you detain them then you're potentially stopping any chance they can do it to anyone else ?</p>
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<p>Yep MN5, a muddy pool for sure. But - if you've stopped the threat any legal defence based on self defence is open to being ruled out.</p>
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<p>Yep MN5, a muddy pool for sure. But - if you've stopped the threat any legal defence based on self defence is open to being ruled out.</p>
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<p>I have a spade and plenty of places to bury them...</p>
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<p>but unless you have 'em hog-tied and weighed down by the front wheel of my car ready for the cops, threat is real while they are in my house, watched enough movies to know they always get back up! </p> -
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<p><strong>I have a spade and plenty of places to bury them...</strong></p>
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<p>but unless you have 'em hog-tied and weighed down by the front wheel of my car ready for the cops, threat is real while they are in my house, watched enough movies to know they always get back up! </p>
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<p>.......and an alibi.....you were doing a Star Wars marathon at my place while drinking home brew.</p> -
Bo staff and wooden practice katana in the wardrobe, along with a pair of sai. <br><br>
Only issue is going to be choosing which. Sai, probably. Better for CQB and defense against weapons. <br><br>
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I hope the wardrobe is nearby and easily accessible Nick?<br><br>I have a fuck-off big Maglite under my bed, just in case the power ever goes down...
